She's out there—if you know where to look.
City living may not be all it’s cracked up to—at least in terms of meeting ladies. Just 48 percent of people have found “the one” in urban areas of Britain, compared to 77 percent in the country’s rural parts, according to a new survey of over 2,000 people.
“There is so much choice in the city,” says Richard La Ruina, dating coach, and author of The Natural: How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want. “In the countryside, you may be presented with less options—thus, less temptation.” (No matter where you’re located, women are women. Click here to learn What Every Woman Wants.)
While there may be more options in the city, you may not be putting yourself in the right places. Here are a few ways to beat the odds and snag the girl of your dreams.
At a Party—At This Time
It tends to hold true no matter the city: The party starts late. NYC bars are open until 4 a.m., while drinking holes’ last call is just before 1 a.m in the rural part of the state. Here’s the thing: “In my experience, I’ve noticed that women tend to go to parties earlier, while men tend to show up later,” says Tracey Steinberg, dating and flirting expert. It’s not science, but if you’re striking out at 11 p.m. when the party started at 9, change your schedule.
It tends to hold true no matter the city: The party starts late. NYC bars are open until 4 a.m., while drinking holes’ last call is just before 1 a.m in the rural part of the state. Here’s the thing: “In my experience, I’ve noticed that women tend to go to parties earlier, while men tend to show up later,” says Tracey Steinberg, dating and flirting expert. It’s not science, but if you’re striking out at 11 p.m. when the party started at 9, change your schedule.
At a Nicer Bar Than You Frequent Right Now
Ever seen a group of dressed up girls walk in to a hole-in-the-wall sports bar? They’re likely not there for the beer list. “I don’t think there’s anything wrong with going a place to meet someone,” Steinberg says. “Women do it all the time.” Your move: Next time you’re going to grab post-work beers with your office buddies, skip your local pub and hit up the dressier wine bar uptown—she’s more likely to be there. Click here to learn How to Drop Weight with Wine.
Ever seen a group of dressed up girls walk in to a hole-in-the-wall sports bar? They’re likely not there for the beer list. “I don’t think there’s anything wrong with going a place to meet someone,” Steinberg says. “Women do it all the time.” Your move: Next time you’re going to grab post-work beers with your office buddies, skip your local pub and hit up the dressier wine bar uptown—she’s more likely to be there. Click here to learn How to Drop Weight with Wine.
At Your Local Animal Shelter
According to the Burea of Labor Statistics, year after year, more women than men volunteer. “If a man likes to make the world a better place, he’s going to be with a lot of women,” says Steinberg. Volunteer at an animal shelter, wine taste, or sign up for dance classes—these are all female-friendly spots itching for some male company, Steinberg adds.
According to the Burea of Labor Statistics, year after year, more women than men volunteer. “If a man likes to make the world a better place, he’s going to be with a lot of women,” says Steinberg. Volunteer at an animal shelter, wine taste, or sign up for dance classes—these are all female-friendly spots itching for some male company, Steinberg adds.
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