5 Mistakes (and How to Avoid Them)
Sex Mistake #1: Assuming he’s always up for sex
That’s far from the only sex myth women believe, Cox says.
And myths like that can lead to big mistakes and misunderstandings in the bedroom.
Cox reveals five common nookie no-nos that can sabotage your love life, and tells you how to steer clear of them.
And myths like that can lead to big mistakes and misunderstandings in the bedroom.
Cox reveals five common nookie no-nos that can sabotage your love life, and tells you how to steer clear of them.
Sex Mistake #1: Assuming he’s always up for sex
This might hold true for teenage boys, but not necessarily for men.
Once males hit their mid-20s, a whole lot of things are competing for their energy. Pressures of work, bills and everyday life can put a major damper on his libido.
“He’s not like a vibrator,” as Cox puts it. “You can’t just plug him in and expect him to perform on cue.”
That doesn’t mean he doesn’t desire you anymore.
Once males hit their mid-20s, a whole lot of things are competing for their energy. Pressures of work, bills and everyday life can put a major damper on his libido.
“He’s not like a vibrator,” as Cox puts it. “You can’t just plug him in and expect him to perform on cue.”
That doesn’t mean he doesn’t desire you anymore.
He just truly may not be in the mood.
Sex Mistake #2: Thinking sex ends when he climaxes
Sex Mistake #3: Obsessing about your body
Sex Mistake #2: Thinking sex ends when he climaxes
Just because he’s been fulfilled doesn’t mean you’ve been.
Let him know you’re not done yet; help him find other ways to finish the job using his hands or mouth.
If he’s consistently too wiped out to give you the attention you deserve, plan to have your needs met before his next time.
Let him know you’re not done yet; help him find other ways to finish the job using his hands or mouth.
If he’s consistently too wiped out to give you the attention you deserve, plan to have your needs met before his next time.
Sex Mistake #3: Obsessing about your body
So the numbers on the scale aren’t what you’d like them to be.
Putting on weight is no excuse for avoiding sex. Or maybe you’re fine with your weight but there’s some other figure flaw you’re fixating on.
Putting on weight is no excuse for avoiding sex. Or maybe you’re fine with your weight but there’s some other figure flaw you’re fixating on.
Guess what? If he wants to have sex with you, he thinks you’re sexy.
If your self-image is hindering your sex life, consult a therapist, join a support group or read a self-help book.
Sex Mistake #4: Not giving him any guidance
If your self-image is hindering your sex life, consult a therapist, join a support group or read a self-help book.
Sex Mistake #4: Not giving him any guidance
Pleasing a woman is no easy task.
So help him out!
Give him explicit directions – when, where, how hard, how fast, and more.
If you’re too embarrassed to cue him verbally, find another way.
For example, if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie, say something like, “That’s a good move” or “That doesn’t do it for me.”
So help him out!
Give him explicit directions – when, where, how hard, how fast, and more.
If you’re too embarrassed to cue him verbally, find another way.
For example, if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie, say something like, “That’s a good move” or “That doesn’t do it for me.”
Or bookmark pages in a sex book and ask him to read them. Or let out a moan when he does something that pleases you.
Because when it comes to sex, communication is key.
Sex Mistake #5: Overreacting when he suggests something new
Because when it comes to sex, communication is key.
Sex Mistake #5: Overreacting when he suggests something new
Most of us do the same thing day in and day out. And whether it’s in the bedroom or the boardroom, routine can get boring.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to spice up your love life.
Men like looking at, trying out and experimenting with new things; there’s nothing sinister about it.
Suggesting something new is not an implied criticism of you. It’s just a simple craving for variety.
The best part is that he wants to try it with you.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to spice up your love life.
Men like looking at, trying out and experimenting with new things; there’s nothing sinister about it.
Suggesting something new is not an implied criticism of you. It’s just a simple craving for variety.
The best part is that he wants to try it with you.
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